Poking at my dating preferences

Poking at my dating preferences

I remember when I was 18, and in a relationship with a white guy for the first time, I was literally told by his (white) friends “how lucky I was” that he “lowered his standards” to go for “someone Asian”. That was 12 years ago. … Continue Reading →
Change your first impressions

Change your first impressions

A bit about me My family immigrated from Malaysia and settled in Burnaby (a suburb of Vancouver) when I was 8 years old. Already feeling like an outsider because I did not grow up in Canada, I knew I was also different for other reasons … Continue Reading →