• Grow out of GAM

    Grow out of GAM

    Grow out of GAM; Grow into who we can be I moved to San Francisco from Taiwan in 1999, having never heard about the term GAM …

  • Bananas can learn

    Bananas can learn

    Being Filipino, I am already a mix of the many countries and cultures that have shaped (some would say invaded) the Philippines. But with my family …

  • Never forget who you are and what you stand for

    Never forget who you are and what you stand for

    My name is JP Parmar. I’m 21, born and raised in Canada and moved to Vancouver over 2 years ago, and I love Asian men and …

  • On Being Asian, Gay, and Naïve

    On Being Asian, Gay, and Naïve

    It is 10:00pm. I am in my bed; lying alone as per usual. I check my phone, although it did not make any notification noises or …

  • Dating my way to self-growth and acceptance. 

    Dating my way to self-growth and acceptance. 

    Dating has never been a forte of mine. I watched my friends in high school trying their luck with the opposite sex and it seemed like …

Grow out of GAM

Grow out of GAM

Grow out of GAM; Grow into who we can be I moved to San Francisco from Taiwan in 1999, having never heard about the term GAM before. Shortly after arriving, I ran into a friendly white guy on the bus stop in Castro. He was … Continue Reading →
Bananas can learn

Bananas can learn

Being Filipino, I am already a mix of the many countries and cultures that have shaped (some would say invaded) the Philippines. But with my family immigrating in the early 70s to the U.S., that really ensured my development into a “banana,” a derogatory label … Continue Reading →
On Being Asian, Gay, and Naïve

On Being Asian, Gay, and Naïve

It is 10:00pm. I am in my bed; lying alone as per usual. I check my phone, although it did not make any notification noises or anything I check it habitually, almost religiously as all millennials now do. I then scroll through my social media … Continue Reading →